This is How I Dare

SARK asks women everywhere how we dare to be creatively fulfilled and successful? Her answer is “Because you have wonders inside that must be let loose, that is how you dare.”

This website is how I dare to live my creative dream each and every day. I accept that my dream and this blog will have days full of inspiration, insight, and laughter and I also accept that this blog will have days full of mistakes, detours, and the inability to impact anyone. I accept the entire package knowing I am living my dream and practicing the art of life balance.

A very wise woman introduced the following poem to me. I suggest printing it and reading it out loud as if you had written each and every word yourself.

Please comment on your emotional response to this exercise and poem.

So Much Happiness
by Naomi Shihab Nye

“It is difficult to know what to do with so much happiness.
With sadness there is something to rub against,
a wound to tend with lotion and cloth.
When the world falls in around you, you have pieces to pick up,
something to hold in your hands, like ticket stubs or change.

But happiness floats.
It doesn’t need you to hold it down.
It doesn’t need anything.
Happiness lands on the roof of the next house, singing,
and disappears when it wants to.
You are happy either way.
Even the fact that you once lived in a peaceful tree house
and now live over a quarry of noise and dust
cannot make you unhappy.
Everything has a life of its own,
it too could wake up filled with possibilities
of coffee cake and ripe peaches,
and love even the floor which needs to be swept,
the soiled linens and scratched records…..

Since there is no place large enough
to contain so much happiness,
you shrug, you raise your hands, and it flows out of you
into everything you touch. You are not responsible.
You take no credit, as the night sky takes no credit
for the moon, but continues to hold it, and share it,
and in that way, be known.”

By Stacey Hoffer

Stacey Hoffer is an ICF-certified mental health and emotional wellness coach, ancient feminine wisdom mentor, and upcoming author, who is powerful guide for cultivating deep inner peace. With a client list that includes Fortune 500 companies, the NFL, and women from all over the world, Stacey seamlessly blends evidence-based practices with ancient wisdom to deliver unparalleled transformations. Known for her comforting approach, Stacey helps her clients navigate life’s inevitable challenges while reconnecting to their inner strength and calm. Her work goes beyond surface solutions — she offers practical tools and soul-deep insights that empower individuals to live in alignment with their authentic selves. Stacey’s passion lies in guiding her clients back to their truest selves. Her message is clear: inner peace isn’t just attainable — it’s the foundation for a more joyful, empowered life. And it's a conscious, intentional, life long practice. Stacey believes If every person on this planet embodied self love and inner peace, we could achieve world peace.

4 comments

  1. I recently moved from lake front property to an urban environment. I have taped the following quote from the poem on to my computer “Even the fact that you once lived in a peaceful tree house and now live over a quarry of noise and dust cannot make you unhappy.” My living environment often gets me down but I will try to remember that I can still find happiness regardless of my view out my window (sigh). My heart still longs for views of the lake.

  2. Wow – great poem. Thank you for admitting that you will make mistakes and won’t always be able to inspire people. How refreshing. I wish more people would discuss the reality of not having to be perfect all of the time. Please know that today you did in fact have the ability to impact someone (me).

  3. Happiness floats…I like that, I like it alot. Thanks for posting the poem, and reminding me of Sark. I haven’t read her books in some time, I’ll have to dig her out as she doesn’t deserve to get dusty. 🙂

  4. @Susan > SARK was actually the wise woman who shared this poem with me. I just returned from a 4 day workshop with SARK and have been reading this poem out loud each day ever since. ~Stacey

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