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I was talking to a life coach today and she asked me what legacy I wanted to leave my children. She asked me to imagine my boys, all grown up, describing me to someone who didn’t know me.
She asked me how I would want them to describe me as a mom and as an individual.
As a Mom…
I hope they will describe me as loving, fun, silly, warm, open, available, and spontaneous. Someone they can always turn to.
As an Individual…
I hope they will describe me as strong, calming, silly, courageous, unique, and whimsical. Someone with drive, with a passion for life, with a passion for community, with a passion for helping moms life their best lives, and a good friend. A woman who honors her sense of self and nurtures her authentic voice.
When your children are all grown up, how would you want them to describe you?
Are you the person today who you want your children to be describing tomorrow? I challenge you (as I challenge myself) to fully live the legacy today that you want your chidren to cherish when they are older.
By Stacey Hoffer
Stacey Hoffer is an ICF-certified mental health and emotional wellness coach, ancient feminine wisdom mentor, and upcoming author, who is powerful guide for cultivating deep inner peace. With a client list that includes Fortune 500 companies, the NFL, and women from all over the world, Stacey seamlessly blends evidence-based practices with ancient wisdom to deliver unparalleled transformations.
Known for her comforting approach, Stacey helps her clients navigate life’s inevitable challenges while reconnecting to their inner strength and calm. Her work goes beyond surface solutions — she offers practical tools and soul-deep insights that empower individuals to live in alignment with their authentic selves.
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This is such a good exercise. Thank you for sharing.
Stacey,
Very thoughtprovoking indeed.
I just want my boys to be happy, balanced adults. I want them to do what they like and enjoy life. And if they are, then I guess I have done my part. That’s all I need.
Thanks
Mimi
I am not a MOM but want to be like a MOM for my sweet baby Nancy.
You have mentioned a very good exercise here.
I’m also not a mum, and never will be, but I think that for a father (that I’m gonna be hopefully) it is just as important issue. I wish I would also be described as a person that was just good enough for my children – giving them home, care, love and understanding. I don’t want ever to build a wall between me and my children, but to be their friend and always stay close to them.